What to Expect From Networking Events – A Beginner's Guide to Networking

A friendly, no-fluff guide to help first-timers navigate networking events with confidence and make real, lasting connections.

Brittany Bartram

April 16th, 2025

Group of diverse people networking at event.

So, You’re Going to a Networking Event…

You’ve RSVP’d. The date’s in your calendar. It’s official. And now, somewhere between excitement and panic, you’re wondering…

 

What exactly did I sign up for?

Take a breath. You’re not alone.

 

Everyone remembers their first networking event, that feeling of walking into a room full of strangers, unsure where to start or what to say. It’s totally normal to feel a little awkward. But here’s the good news: Networking isn’t about being the most polished person in the room. It’s about being present, being curious, and creating real connections.

 

Whether you’re showing up to meet new people, explore career opportunities, or just push yourself outside your comfort zone, this beginner’s guide will walk you through what to expect and how to make the most of it.

What Actually Happens at Networking Events?

If you’re imagining a big, stuffy ballroom filled with business cards and forced smiles, don’t worry. Today’s networking events come in all shapes and sizes. Here are a few common formats you might come across:

 

  • Casual mixers– Think rooftop happy hours or morning coffee meetups. These tend to be relaxed and social.
  • Panel talks or workshops – Learn something new while meeting people who care about the same topics.
  • Speed networking – Short, fast-paced chats designed to connect you quickly with many people.
  • Themed meetups – Focused on specific industries, communities, or goals, so you’re more likely to meet like-minded folks.

No matter the setup, the goal is the same: connection. Everyone’s there to meet people, share ideas, and expand their network, just like you.

What You Can Expect as a First-Timer

1. People Want to Talk to You

This isn’t a high school cafeteria situation. Most attendees are open, welcoming, and genuinely excited to connect. And chances are, a few of them are just as new to this as you are.


2. You’ll Hear “So, What Do You Do?” A Lot

It’s the go-to opener at these events, so it helps to have a quick, honest answer ready. Keep it short and casual, like:

 

“I’m a graphic designer focusing on branding for restaurants.”

 or

“I just started my own business helping restaurants with digital marketing.”

 

You don’t need a perfect elevator pitch. Just be real.

 

3. Feeling a Bit Awkward? Totally Normal.
Seriously, everyone’s been there. The trick is to take that first step: smile, say hi, ask a question. Once you break the ice, the rest gets easier.

How to Prepare (Without Overthinking It)

You don’t need a perfect script or a stack of credentials to walk in with confidence. A little prep goes a long way.

 

  • Do Some Light Research: Check out the event page, the host’s social media, or the list of speakers. Knowing the vibe (and who might be there) helps you feel more at ease and gives you some natural conversation starters.
  • Bring a Way to Stay Connected: Yes, business cards still exist. But a LinkedIn QR code or contact card on your phone works just as well. The idea is to make it easy for people to remember and follow up with you. Pro tip: If the event is hosted on Common, you’re in luck. The app lets you reconnect with other attendees even after the event ends—no awkward “what was their name again?” moments. It’s networking that lasts beyond the room
  • Dress for the Vibe: Business casual is usually a safe bet. When in doubt, go a little more polished; it can also help you feel more confident.
  • Set a Tiny Goal: Before you go in, ask yourself: “What would make this a win for me?” Maybe it’s introducing yourself to three new people. Maybe it’s asking someone how they got into their field. Having a small goal makes the experience more focused and more rewarding.

Tips to Make the Most of It (Even If You’re Shy)

  • Be Curious: People love to talk about what they’re passionate about. Ask thoughtful questions and actually listen, you’ll stand out more than you think.
  • It’s Not a Competition: This isn’t about who can collect the most business cards. One or two meaningful conversations can be way more impactful than 20 quick handshakes.
  • Join the Circle: See a group chatting? Don’t be shy. Hover nearby, make eye contact, and wait for a natural pause. Then say something like: “Hey, mind if I join you?” Chances are, they’ll welcome you right in. If you don’t make the move to join groups and socialize, don’t expect much in return.  
  • Follow Up: This is where the magic happens. A quick message the next day can turn a brief chat into a lasting connection. Try something like: “Great meeting you yesterday, loved our conversation about [topic]. Let’s keep in touch!”

Final Thoughts: Connection Starts With Showing Up

Here’s the truth: your first networking event might feel a little uncomfortable. But that’s okay. The real win isn’t about saying all the right things, it’s about being brave enough to show up.

 

Every event gets easier. Every conversation builds confidence. And before you know it, you’ll be the one welcoming someone new into the circle.

Ready to Start Making Real Connections?

Whether attending or planning your event, Common makes networking easier. From RSVPs to post-event connections, it’s all designed to help people come together and stay connected.

 

Host or discover your next networking event on Common today.